People rarely understand why they don't like or enjoy
something/someone. Most people have a gut feeling that's telling them
something, but they don't know what it is, and they're lucky if they even know
what it's about. When they do know
what it's about, then they start looking for reasons to rationalize their
feelings. It's actually pretty interesting when you think about it because it's
almost as if people are literally making up reasons to try to solve a puzzle
that they themselves made.
Here's an example,
You know somebody that you really don't like. When people
ask you why you don't like that person, your response is, "I'm not sure, I
guess it's just his (her) attitude."
A lot of people do this. It's quite common. Subconsciously,
people try to rationalize their beliefs, even if they themselves don't know why
they believe it. People ultimately lie to themselves by finding reasons to hate
things that they don't like.
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